Midlife Crisis Of Men And Divorce
by admin - February 20th, 2010.Filed under: Uncategorized.
The 46-year-old Spanish princess Infanta Elena’s divorce from her husband has become official and their seven years of married life came to an end. Middle age divorces are now very common and several couples decide to part the ways after their 40th birthday. If we ask the reason for divorce, many middle-aged people who are on the road to a BC divorce may reply that they cannot understand and deal with the sudden behavior changes in their spouses.
Midlife crisis is a natural phenomenon that usually occurs between the ages of 40s and 60s. This is considered as an emotionally transition period and is characterized by a profound feeling of unhappiness and discontent with life. Many psychologists and psychiatrists think midlife crisis as a normal stage in an adult’s life. However problems arise when this situation causes drastic changes in an individual’s character and thereby creates a lot of unrest in the family.
Midlife crisis was first identified by a well-known Swiss psychiatrist Carl Gustav Jung.
It is believed that men experience the symptoms of midlife crisis more greatly than women. During this period, people tend to give more importance to their physical appearance and like to dress and behave like young people.
The factors that can contribute to the beginning of this situation include fear of getting old, financial difficulties, loss of job, death of spouse or parents, and disobedient and rebellious children. Empty nest syndrome is another reason that can cause the onset of midlife crisis. Individuals who pass through midlife crisis try to “take stock of what they have and have not yet accomplished, at times taking drastic measures to fulfill their dreams.”
During your midlife crisis, you will experience many negative emotions like distress, trepidation, fear, disappointment, restlessness, and helplessness. You can also feel as though there is no meaning to your life and also will want to do something different in life. Many people show the symptom and signs of psychological problems like mood swings and anxiety in their midlife crisis. At the same time, they cannot point out any reasons for being depressed and frustrated.
Midlife crisis can sometimes directly cause the breakdown of relationship between husband and wife. It is seen in many cases that men have a tendency to neglect and dump their wives during midlife crisis. They also show an inclination to enter into extramarital relationships. If you pay a little attention to analyze the real factors behind divorces, you can realize that there are many women in British Columbia who are on the edge of a BC divorce due to the adulterous relationships of their middle-aged husbands.